Japan is a country rich in history, culture, and tradition. If you’re planning a trip to Japan, it’s important to be aware of certain customs and etiquette to make sure you show respect and avoid any cultural faux pas. Whether you’re visiting for business or pleasure, understanding Japanese culture and etiquette is an absolute must.
Here’s what we’re covering in this post:
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Why you should never wear shoes indoors
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The importance of silence on public transportation
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How to navigate gift-giving traditions
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Why tipping is considered rude
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How to properly use chopsticks
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The significance of bathing etiquette in Japan
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Why you should avoid pointing
My husband spent a few years living in Japan before we were married and he has told me all about how big of a deal manners are over there. Something as simple as where you put your chopsticks could lead to many people feeling disrespected and offended. We are going to Japan soon so I figured I would do my homework on what not to do while we are there so I don’t embarrass myself and I figured I’d bring you all along for the ride!
So let’s get started! Here’s how to avoid common tourist mistakes.
1. Never Wear Shoes Indoors
In Japan, it’s customary to remove your shoes before entering someone’s home, certain traditional accommodations, and even some temples. The reason behind this custom is to keep the indoor environment clean. You’ll often be provided with indoor slippers to wear instead. It’s a good idea to wear socks that are in good condition, as you’ll likely be walking around without shoes frequently.
If you’re planning to stay in a traditional ryokan or visit someone’s home, be sure to pack a pair of socks that you’re comfortable walking in and that aren’t all gross and ratty.
2. Keep Quiet on Public Transportation
Japanese trains are infamous for their punctuality and efficiency, but they’re also known for being extremely quiet. It’s considered rude to speak loudly or talk on the phone while using public transportation which is such a stark contrast to the U.S. The Japanese value their personal space and tranquility, especially in crowded cities like Tokyo. If you need to take a call, it’s best to step off the train at the next stop or wait until you reach your destination. This might be difficult, but view this as an opportunity to embrace the culture!
3. Be Mindful of Gift-Giving Traditions
Gift-giving in Japan is a complex ritual, steeped in tradition. If you’re invited to someone’s home or attending a special event, it’s customary to bring a small gift, known as omiyage. However, the way you present the gift is just as important as the gift itself. Always wrap your gift neatly and avoid using white wrapping paper, as white is associated with funerals. This may seem intimidating at first, but after a while, you’ll get the hang of it!
4. Avoid Tipping
In the U.S., tipping is a way to show appreciation for good service. However, in Japan, tipping can be seen as insulting. The Japanese believe that good service should be standard, and tipping can imply that the service was subpar and needs compensation. If you’re dining out or taking a taxi, simply pay the bill as is—no tip required. With how expensive it is to travel these days, this should come as a relief!
5. Use Chopsticks Properly
Chopsticks are the primary utensils used in Japan, and there are a few rules to follow when using them. Never stick your chopsticks upright in a bowl of rice, as this resembles a funeral ritual. Also, avoid passing food directly from your chopsticks to someone else’s chopsticks, as this also mimics a funeral custom. You might want to hit up your favorite Asian restaurant before your trip and get some practice in.
6. Follow Bathing Etiquette
Public baths, known as onsen, are a big part of Japanese culture. Before entering the communal bath, it’s important to thoroughly wash and rinse your body. The bath is for soaking and relaxing, not for cleaning. Also, be aware that many onsen have strict rules about tattoos, which are often associated with the Yakuza (Japanese organized crime groups).
7. Don’t Point
Pointing at people or objects is considered impolite in Japan. If you need to indicate something, it’s better to use your whole hand, palm facing upwards, or gently nod in the direction you’re referring to. This small gesture can make a big difference in how you’re perceived by locals.
Respecting local customs and traditions can make your trip to Japan much more enjoyable and help you avoid any awkward situations. By following these guidelines, you’ll be able to connect more authentically with the people and culture of Japan.
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